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| Lillie Viola Russell Standley |
The imagery of a lesson taught by my Great Grandfather Chase's cousin, Lillie Viola Russell Standley is powerful. It was one of her favorite sayings and was often repeated to her children. As with all lessons, actions and example must support what is taught. I know that Lillie lived this principle because her daughter, Mary Luella remembered it throughout her life and spoke of the profound influence it had on her behavior.
The simple lesson was about the power of words and the importance of watching carefully what you say about others. She said:
“Be careful what you say about other people.
It’s
like driving a nail in a board.
You can pull out the nail, but the hole is still there.”
